The FLOW matrix
This matrix invites us to hold opposites without resistance and to discover the fertile space between them.
an opportunity to embrace
Now imagine that you are the river being observed by you. You are the flow. You move with ease, you have changing currents, ripples, and depth. As you observe branches, rocks, and sediment, you recognize these things as symbols for your responsibilities, identities, expectations. The job, the family, the pressure, the past. They are part of the landscape. But somewhere along the way, we begin to believe that we are the obstruction… That we are the rock in our own path.
You are not the barrier.
You are still the current.
Emotions move the same way. They are currents—temporary, shifting, responsive. Like water, they are meant to move through. When we resist them, we often intensify their force. Imagine being caught in a riptide, fighting to swim straight back to shore, we exhaust ourselves. But when we allow the current to carry us, when we feel instead of fight, we begin to move towards safety.
In yoga, we hold a similar inquiry inside a container: self-study (svadhyaya) and divine play (lila). These are the spaces where we begin to observe the currents within us—without needing to fix or force them.
a moment to reflect
Through svadhyaya, we witness:
This is happening. This is moving through me.Â
This is temporary.
And in that witnessing, something opens. We realize that we are not the thought, not the feeling, not even the current itself. We are the one observing that there is flow at all.
And then comes the play.
Through lila, we ask:
Am I the river?
Am I the boulder?
What happens if I let both be true?
Flow becomes less about control, and more about curiosity.
So this month, we invite you into the inquiry:
What is currently in your way?
